|  | TOPIC:  Mates
 Having the right Skill Set makes one an attractive mate, and the right Mind Set will help 
in lining up with the right mates during the coming pole shift, creating the Strongest 
Team and avoiding Mad Max Gangs. Local Groups will spontaneously form. The 
Amish are seen by many as a Role Model. Ideal Community Size depends on many 
factors, including adequate Infrastructure. Dependents such as Children, etc. can 
perform important tasks, and are happiest when allowed to do so. The best mates can 
share and sacrifice, but making a STO Determination is a Difficult Call sometimes 
assisted by Instinct. Clearly the Antisocial Personality is not a good mate when the 
orientations are an Oil and Water mix. Cults such as the Nuwaubians should be 
avoided. Setting Standards or using Probation are screening mechanisms. A community 
may find Heroes emerging, but the Original Mix and Community Focus matter. Things 
may be Worse, not Better, Small Groups the norm, Leadership earned, and Information 
the best gift. Military Units will be disbanded, and Mercenaries few.  |